San Diego Cuddle Party® Meetup

WHAT IS CUDDLE PARTY®? (From CuddleParty.com)

Cuddle Party® is … a workshop!

Though touch is natural, the skills that make it welcome and enjoyable should be learned. The skills of communication, boundary setting, asking for what you want, and saying ‘Yes’ or ‘No’ with clarity and kindness are practiced.

Cuddle Party® is led by trained and certified Cuddle Party® Facilitators. That’s me, Amanda. This workshop is to guide you into those skills gently and easily, in a fun, safe and light hearted, nurturing way. It is to welcome you and create an atmosphere of respect, and remain available for questions and support.

At a Cuddle Party® you gain:

• Clarity and confidence

• Boundary and communication skills

• Comfort, support and encouragement.

• All gender identities, lifestyles and ethnicities are welcome.

The cost of this event is $40 with sliding scale if you are in need just reach out to me with questions. I am also offering 4 early bird tickets for $30 each. The value of this event is well worth it. Learning to communicate is helpful in any relationship. The tickets are non refundable unless you attend the whole welcome circle and decide that this isn’t the event for you. The event is held at my home in a room set up behind my garage detached from the house. There are 2 steps up to get into the main house to use the restroom. I also have cats in my home that I lock up when people are here but they do not go into the cuddle space. This is their home and they welcome you to come and join if you can.

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ETIQUETTE
Arrive on time: once we begin the Welcome Circle Cuddle orientation, the doors will close and no one else will be admitted. This creates comfort and accountability by ensuring that everyone has heard the rules and expectations and has agreed to them.
What to wear: Comfy G rated clothes. What to bring: Just you and any munchies you want to snack on and water in a closed container.
Scents can make small spaces feel even smaller. Please refrain from wearing fragrances, or other strong scents (soaps, powders).
EVENT ITINERARY
Friday December 6, 2024. 5:00pm- 9:00pm please arrive no later than 5:15pm for safe space creation.)

5:00-5:15pm meet and Greet - Cuddlers arrive, check in and get comfy.
• 5:15-6:15 Welcome Circle/Initial Ice Breakers - You must be present through the entire welcome circle to participate.

• 6:15pm- 8:45 pm Transition Exercises to Open Cuddle Time - Freestyle consent aware cuddling or socializing.

8:45-9:00pm Closing Circle - Coming together for gratitudes, closure, and goodbyes.
CLASSIC CUDDLE PARTY® RULES
[Clothes] stay on the whole time
You don't have to touch anyone at a Cuddle Party® ever.
You must ask permission and receive a verbal YES before you touch anyone.
If you are a yes, say YES. If you are a no, say NO.
If you are a maybe, say NO,
You are encouraged to change your mind.
Respect your relationship agreements and communicate with your partner.
Get a facilitator if you have a question, concern, or need assistance.
Tears and laughter are both welcome.
Respect people's privacy when sharing about Cuddle Party® [style events.]
Keep the cuddle space tidy.
VALUABLE INFO FOR PEOPLE WHO MIGHT BE NEW TO THE CUDDLE PARTY® VIBE
If you are new to Cuddle Parties, the following information can provide many answers for you.

• The secrets to welcome, relaxed, non-sexual touch

The skills you learn at Cuddle Party® translate into everyday life, right from the start. When boundaries and consent are clear, every relationship is easier.

https://events.humanitix.com/copy-of-cuddle-party-3dgbkdef

Conscious Communication and Nurturing Touch. That is what a Cuddle Party is all about.

Cuddle party features a safe supportive space to explore a wide range of nurturing touch and connection experiences.

The first hour or so is a communication workshop in which you will learn how to ask for what you want in a way that feels like a gift. You will learn to choose; say yes and no and even change your mind in a graceful way.

This is followed by a couple of hours of free style cuddling where you get to practice the skills learned in the workshop.

You will leave with a greater understanding and connection with YOU, and perhaps a few others who you may have not even met yet.

The address will be provided after registration.

Registration and tickets: https://december2024cuddle.eventbrite.com

Note: you must register at the Eventbrite event for this CuddleParty

The Cuddle Party lasts for about 4 hours:
Doors open at 2:00 pm

2:00-2:30 pm arrive, check in and put on pajamas. Please bring clean, comfy. cuddly clothes. Also, bringing a snack and cuddle accessories to share is welcome :) No alcohol please.

2:30 - 3:30 pm The Welcome Circle. Attendees MUST be present for the whole welcome circle to participate. If you are not here by 2:30pm and have not called, you may not be able to participate. My phone number is 619-846-5356.

3:30 - 5:30 pm Freestyle practice time with affectionate nurturing touch - what we call "Cuddling".

5:30 - 6:00 pm Closing circle, and goodbyes.
Questions? Call 619-846-5356 or email [email protected]

Details:

The Rules of "Cuddling"
The rules are tried and true, and there’s a logic to them that goes deeper than you might think to create a safe, fun environment for people to connect. At a Cuddle Party event the first hour or so includes an explanation of the rules that you can use every day. Intrigued? Come check it out!

The Rules

ARRIVE ON TIME: Once we begin the Welcome Circle and orientation, sorry, we can't let anyone enter late. This creates comfort and safety by knowing that everyone is on the same page about rules and expectations.

WHAT TO WEAR: Pajamas or sweats– nothing too risqué. Think more comfy than sexy. (More flannel, less lace! No short-shorts or nighties please.) There will be space for changing

WHAT TO BRING: Sorry, no liquor folks. Juice or sparkling cider is always welcome as are treats and snacks to share. A stuffed animal if you like. A comfort pillow is always nice. Otherwise, just bring your smiling self.

STICK TO THE RULES:

Pajamas stay on the whole time.

You don’t have to cuddle anyone at a cuddle party, ever.

You must ask permission and receive a verbal YES before you touch
anyone. (Be as specific in your request as you can.)

If you’re a yes, say YES. If you’re a no, say NO.

If you’re a maybe, say NO.

You are encouraged to change your mind.

Respect your relationship agreements and communicate with your partner.

Get your Facilitator or the Assistant if you have a question or concern or need assistance with anything during the event.

Tears and laughter are both welcome.

Respect people’s privacy

Keep the Cuddle space tidy

PAYMENT AND REFUNDS Please pay online using Eventbrite for a guaranteed reservation. Those who arrive at the door may find that the event is full. The cost at the door is $40.00 If you reserve and then find you cannot make it I will give you a refund less the processing fee if you let me know at least 24 hours before. There is no refund or credit if you don't show up. However, if you come and then leave after the welcome circle, I will give you a complete refund.

If you feel drawn to come and find the cost out of your reach, please email or give me a call.

The address will be given after registration
Registration and tickets: https://december2024cuddle.eventbrite.com

Note: you must register at the Eventbrite event for this CuddleParty

Please direct your questions to Adam at 619-846-5356 or [email protected]

Cuddle party is a workshop in learning boundaries and consent with platonic clothes on cuddling. The creation of a safe nurturing container to explore using your voice and asking for what you want. All gender identities, lifestyles and ethnicities are welcome.

The cost of this event is $40 with sliding scale if you are in need just reach out to me with questions. I am also offering 4 early bird tickets for $30 each. The value of this event is well worth it. The tickets are non refundable unless you attend the whole welcome circle and decide that this isn’t the event for you. The event is held at my home in a room set up behind my garage detached from the house. There are 2 steps up to get into the main house to use the restroom. I also have cats in my home that I lock up when people are here but they do not go into the cuddle space. This is their home and they welcome you to come and join if you can.

https://events.humanitix.com/copy-of-cuddle-party-d8lb2jep

ETIQUETTE
Arrive on time: once we begin the Welcome Circle Cuddle orientation, the doors will close and no one else will be admitted. This creates comfort and accountability by ensuring that everyone has heard the rules and expectations and has agreed to them.
What to wear: Comfy G rated clothes. What to bring: Just you and any munchies you want to snack on and water in a closed container.
Scents can make small spaces feel even smaller. Please refrain from wearing fragrances, or other strong scents (soaps, powders).
EVENT ITINERARY
Sunday December 29, 2024. 1:00pm-5:00 pm please arrive no later than 1:15pm for safe space creation.)

1:00-1:15pmmeet and Greet - Cuddlers arrive, check in and get comfy.
1:15 2:15Welcome Circle/Initial Ice Breakers - You must be present through the entire welcome circle to participate.

2:15-4:45Transition Exercises to Open Cuddle Time - Freestyle consent aware cuddling or socializing.

4:45-5: 00pmCircle - Coming together for gratitudes, closure, and goodbyes.
CLASSIC CUDDLE PARTY® RULES
[Clothes] stay on the whole time
You don't have to touch anyone at a Cuddle Party® ever.
You must ask permission and receive a verbal YES before you touch anyone.
If you are a yes, say YES. If you are a no, say NO.
If you are a maybe, say NO,
You are encouraged to change your mind.
Respect your relationship agreements and communicate with your partner.
Get a facilitator if you have a question, concern, or need assistance.
Tears and laughter are both welcome.
Respect people's privacy when sharing about Cuddle Party® [style events.]
Keep the cuddle space tidy.
VALUABLE INFO FOR PEOPLE WHO MIGHT BE NEW TO THE CUDDLE PARTY® VIBE
If you are new to Cuddle Parties, the following information can provide many answers for you.

WHAT IS CUDDLE PARTY®? (From CuddleParty.com)

Cuddle Party® is … a workshop!

Though touch is natural, the skills that make it welcome and enjoyable should be learned. The skills of communication, boundary setting, asking for what you want, and saying ‘Yes’ or ‘No’ with clarity and kindness are practiced.

Cuddle Party® is led by trained and certified Cuddle Party® Facilitators. The Facilitator’s job is to guide you into those skills gently and easily, in a fun, safe and light hearted way. We welcome you and create an atmosphere of respect, and remain available for questions and support.

At a Cuddle Party® you gain:

• Clarity and confidence

• Boundary and communication skills

• Comfort, support and encouragement

• The secrets to welcome, relaxed, non-sexual touch

The skills you learn at Cuddle Party® translate into everyday life, right from the start. When boundaries and consent are clear, every relationship is easier.

https://events.humanitix.com/copy-of-cuddle-party-d8lb2jep