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Hello fellow group members,
Disclaimer: Asking for support, one human to another.
Note: Asking here is taking every ounce of strength and courage I can muster right now. I really hope you understand this is out of necessity.
I’ve been struggling significantly in multiple areas of my life, especially recently. People who know me know how resilient I am—I’ve endured so much, yet here I am. There is an incredible amount of chaos around me, even in this moment, yet I’m not in despair. But I do feel alone—not because I don’t have people around me, but because the weight I’m carrying is burying me deeper and deeper with every step I take. I can’t do this alone. I need help. Real, tangible help.
So, I’m reaching out to the community I built, hoping you may see me as part of your community—that you’d be willing to help.
I’ve been struggling with severe breathing issues that leave me gasping for air. Last night, I stopped breathing three times in 1.5 hours. I’m completely depleted. There’s not a single part of me that isn’t screaming to curl up and hibernate. I’ve given everything I have to keep going, but I can’t do it anymore—definitely not alone. At some point, I have to stop living in pain and suffering.
What would life-saving help look like right now?
If anyone has even a little capacity, here are some practical ways to lighten my load:
- Taking Toffee (my dog) out for a quick walk (recurring).
- Trimming Milo’s (my cat) nails.
* Brushing Toffee’s teeth.
- Finding and booking a carpet cleaner.
- Replacing my HVAC air filter (I already have the filter).
- Looking up doctors and making appointments for me.
- Any other small task you can take off my plate.
Even one tiny act of support would lift part of the weight off my shoulders.
Thank you for reading and for being part of this community. If you can help, please reach out in comments or via meetup message.
💙 Thank you so much for being here.💙

💙 Community Support Request: Help Needed 💙