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What we’re about

Are you active and positive about life? And are you looking for others who are fun, fit, mature, professional, laid back, positive thinkers and just want to make new friends? Let's get together and work out a calendar filled with skiing, camping, hiking, snow shoeing, dancing, music, socializing, and other fun things [New organizer's note, 12/23: If you're sometimes sad, negative, sedentary, or grouchy, we'll still take ya].

A few basic respect requests:
* If you're less than 90% sure you're gonna make it to an event that has a waiting list, either don't sign up, or remove yourself to allow someone else to participate. Waiting till the last minute to cancel is just bad etiquette!
* Be kind to others, in person, and in online comments.
* Please read through the event description carefully before asking questions of the organizer(s). Many times, the answer is in there. If you have advice on how any organizer can be clearer, feel free to contact me, Wysh, and I'll do my best to reach out to the them if you'd rather not.
* Last minute cancellations suck, but if you get sick please cancel - for yourself, and for others.

The Grey Wolves is not a singles group and especially it is not a dating group.  There are unmarried people and married couples in the group.  Our gatherings are not about trolling for dates, sex and such.  Harassing behavior is not tolerated.  A wide range of activities is encouraged, but we don't allow commercial, religious, political or overtly sexual gatherings on the Grey Wolves calendar.  There are plenty of other meetup groups where these things are available.

To be specific, the Grey wolves is not about joining and sending message to people sight unseen asking for dates, asking to sell things, etc.  Any sight unseen message received should be taken as a red flag and reported to an organizer.  Again, this is not a dating site.  If you want to examine profiles and contact people, join an actual dating site. but do not do it here.

UPDATE: Meetup has added a new feature, CONNECTIONS. Please use this rather than messaging someone, even if you've already met them. This allows them to accept or deny the connection and open (or not) a communication channel. THANKS.

If someone has sent you an unwanted message, you can also block them: https://help.meetup.com/hc/en-us/articles/360001673431-Block-someone-from-contacting-me

We require that new members be approved by a group organizer.  This has been done because of some entity (we suspect it was a spamming program, not an actual person) joining the group and sending sexual spam out to people attending certain events.