If you choose to join you are required to fill out an 'About Me' form, consisting of a few basic questions. Additionally, you must post a *RECOGNIZABLE* picture of only yourself, (without sunglasses). This is the #1 reason a person requesting to join is not approved. I suggest you not include your last name in your Profile.

Cape Fear Singles (CFS) offers singles of all ages a fun, comfortable and safe environment in which to meet and make new friends. We started our 19th year in 2024 and are one of the largest and most *active* MeetUp groups in Wilmington, N.C. We have hosted over 7,500 Events in our 19 years.

WE ARE NOT A DATING SITE.

You must join CFS to see our: Upcoming Events (Calendar), Discussions, & Photos tabs, located on our Home Page. Events are added frequently so check often!

There is no cost to join; you will have 30 days to decide if you want to pay the $12 annual dues to help cover the cost for our website & some of the Events we host. If you go past the 30 days (the trial membership) you will be dropped from our membership.

There are only 4 rules for our group:
#1) This is not a commercial site. No business may join. However, members may use the Discussion Board to sell your own car, look f/a roommate, sell a bike, etc. 
#2) No member may harass, bother or annoy any other member.
#3) If you RSVP for an event, be sure you can attend. If you can't make it, change your RSVP as soon as possible so members on the waitlist can make plans to go.  Warning: If you consistently ignore this courtesy, you will forfeit your membership.
#4) No bad language or behavior will be tolerated. If you act badly, you reflect on our entire membership. Every member gets -ONE- warning. If your behavior continues, you will be expelled without a refund.

Note: We want members who participate; why else would you join? If you haven't logged on or attended an event in the last 12 months, you will be removed.

Updated: 03/12/2024