What we’re about
"Childfree Singles of the DMV" is a group for people of any orientation and 21+ age who: are not currently in a romantic relationship; who have not had children (by choice or by circumstance); and who are not planning to have children at this time. This is not an empty-nesters group -- this is a group for people who have never parented. It is also a group for people not in a romantic relationship; this includes nonmonogamy. Please note: If you enter into a romantic relationship, you don't need to leave the group -- but please wait until you are single/unattached again before you attend further Childfree Singles of the DMV events :-) You are welcome whether you are single by choice or by circumstance. Scroll down to see related groups that are open to any relationship status.
Additionally: this is not a "meet market." Many of us desire to become DINKs at some point, while others do not; let's not assume the former for anyone. In the spirit of the overall group, this is inclusive in that regard. But please just come with the intent to have fun and connect with other CFs, not to hook up or partner up. If it happens naturally, awesome. But please don't have that goal in mind.
Let's build our childfree community, have great conversations, and do fun activities while getting to know each other in person!
We respectfully request your consideration in avoiding no-shows and short-notice non-emergency cancellations. Please note: we may reach out to "yes" RSVPs individually a day or two before an event and ask that you reconfirm your attendance status. Thank you.
Some events may be cross-posted with related childfree Meetups. Feel free to join our additional groups and Facebook pages! :-)
Meetup:
* https://4142298.xyz/Northern-Virginia-Childfree-Couples-and-Individuals-Meetup/ (Any relationship status)
* https://4142298.xyz/DMV-Childfree/ (Any relationship status)
* https://4142298.xyz/DMV-DINKs/ (Katie's group - mostly couples-oriented, but singles can also attend events)
* https://4142298.xyz/childfree-singles-of-the-dmv/ (Craig's group - for singles only)
Facebook:
* https://www.facebook.com/groups/nokidsinnovadcmd
* https://www.facebook.com/groups/childfreegrouptravel (Katie's travel group)
Discord:
* Childfree DMV - https://discord.gg/2N2vQ2qFJ8
(Brad's discussion group)
Upcoming events (3)
See all- Profs and Pints: The Single Lesson (Baltimore)Needs location
Some of you attended my "Single Lesson" talk last month in DC. If you missed it, I'm delivering it again in Baltimore. The link to sign up is here: https://profsandpints.ticketleap.com/singlesstudies/details
Details below:
Profs and Pints Baltimore presents: “The Single Lesson,” on myths and misconceptions about singlehood and research and advocacy efforts focused on the unmarried, with Craig Wynne, a professor of English at the University of the District of Columbia and pioneer in the growing field of Singles Studies.
All around us are messages that being “coupled up” is the norm. Shows like The Bachelor, 90-Day Fiancé, and Indian Matchmaking have people rooting and fawning for marriage. J.D. Vance has derided cat-owning single women as a demographic that threatens the fabric of the nation.
Yet, despite its supposed unpopularity, the rate of singlehood is increasing. By 2030, the Pew Research Center has projected, 25 percent of 45- to 54-year-old adults in the United States will never marry.
What’s the real picture when it comes to singles? Is a growing share of the population missing out on marital bliss, or are single people on to something?Hear such questions tackled by Professor Craig Wynne, co-editor of Singular Selves: An Introduction to Singles Studies and author of How to be a Happy Bachelor.
Dr. Wynne will discuss how stereotypes of singlehood are perpetuated in the media and influence laws, policies, and our daily social interactions in ways that harm not just single people but those who are married, cohabitating, or in a relationship.
His talk will tackle the concepts of “singlism,” the stereotyping and stigma around people who are not married or otherwise unpartnered; “matrimania,” over-the-top societal obsession with marriage and weddings; and “amatonormativity,” the assumption that a romantic relationship must be prioritized above all other kinds.
Finally, Dr. Wynne will discuss the emergence of Singles Studies—a field devoted to granting singlehood validity in an academic context—and look at recent advocacy intended to secure single people equity in a world that still privileges being married or coupled. (Advance tickets: $13.50 plus sales tax and processing fees. Doors: $17, or $15 with a student ID. Doors open at 5. The talk begins at 6:30.)
- Profs and Pints: The Single Lesson (Fairfax, VA)NoVa Bar & Grill, Fairfax, VA
Some of you attended my "Single Lesson" talk last month in DC. If you missed it, I'm delivering it again in Fairfax, VA. The link to sign up is here: https://profsandpints.ticketleap.com/one/
Profs and Pints Northern Virginia presents: “The Single Lesson,” on myths and misconceptions about singlehood and research and advocacy efforts focused on the unmarried, with Craig Wynne, a professor of English at the University of the District of Columbia and pioneer in the growing field of Singles Studies.
All around us are messages that being “coupled up” is the norm. Shows like The Bachelor, 90-Day Fiancé, and Indian Matchmaking have people rooting and fawning for marriage. J.D. Vance has derided cat-owning single women as a demographic that threatens the fabric of the nation.
Yet, despite its supposed unpopularity, the rate of singlehood is increasing. By 2030, the Pew Research Center has projected, 25 percent of 45- to 54-year-old adults in the United States will never marry.What’s the real picture when it comes to singles? Is a growing share of the population missing out on marital bliss, or are single people on to something?
Hear such questions tackled by Professor Craig Wynne, co-editor of Singular Selves: An Introduction to Singles Studies and author of How to be a Happy Bachelor.
Dr. Wynne will discuss how stereotypes of singlehood are perpetuated in the media and influence laws, policies, and our daily social interactions in ways that harm not just single people but those who are married, cohabitating, or in a relationship.
His talk will tackle the concepts of “singlism,” the stereotyping and stigma around people who are not married or otherwise unpartnered; “matrimania,” over-the-top societal obsession with marriage and weddings; and “amatonormativity,” the assumption that a romantic relationship must be prioritized above all other kinds.
Finally, Dr. Wynne will discuss the emergence of Singles Studies—a field devoted to granting singlehood validity in an academic context—and look at recent advocacy intended to secure single people equity in a world that still privileges being married or coupled. (Advance tickets: $13.50 plus sales tax and processing fees. Doors: $17, or $15 with a student ID. Listed time is for doors. Talk starts 30 minutes later.)
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