Women's Spiritual Journey discusses Helpfulness

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Women's Spiritual Journey randomly picks a different character trait to discuss each month. Discussions are freewheeling, guided by the interests of the group. Generally, we think about how the quality operates in our lives (or doesn't), what it looks like, what it produces, and how we can strengthen it. Diverse backgrounds and viewpoints are celebrated: we are enriched by it! This month we're discussing...

Helpfulness
Helpfulness is doing useful things for others—things that make a difference to them, no matter how small. It is taking time to be thoughtful, reflecting on what people truly need and assisting them respectfully. We help others by doing things they cannot do for themselves. It is often easier to give help than to receive it. It takes courage to ask for help when we need it. There is always plenty of help when we are willing to ask. When we work selflessly to benefit the lives of others, we always bless our own.
“It is one of the most beautiful compensations of this life
that no man can sincerely try to help another without helping himself.”
~ Ralph Waldo Emerson
The Practice of Helpfulness
I look for little ways to make life easier for others.
I do a service without being asked.
I offer my support in respectful ways.
I give people what they need, not always what they want.
I allow others to be helpful to me.
I strive to be a blessing to others.
I am thankful for the gift of Helpfulness.
It allows met to make a difference.
It helps to think deeply about it!

1. When is the last time you were helpful. Were you asked to help, or did you simply decide to offer it? Tell the story, including how it made you feel.
2. Should we only help people when they can’t do something for themselves? Why or why not?
3. Why do you think it’s hard for people ask for and receive help?
4. When is the last time you asked for help? Was the help given? Tell the story, including how it made you feel.
5. When was the last time someone helped you without your asking for it? Tell the story, including how it made you feel.
6. Explore the meaning of Emerson’s statement. How many ways can you think of that giving help helps the giver?
7. How can we tell the difference between what a person wants and needs? Can you give an example?