What we’re about
WHAT WE’RE ABOUT:
Please note a actual picture of yourself is require to join, failure to provide one, you will not be approved.
- This group is designed exclusively to help single people our age, to meet!
- Our lives are tough enough to meet others, so this group is designed for our members to meet at events.
- monthly meetups includes, the breakfast club, Monthly Meet/Greet and Don’t eat alone. Plus, extra events during the month.
- If you’re attached/dating/in a relationship please step aside and allow others to have the same privilege as you enjoy. If you’re found to be lying, you may be immediately removed from the group without warning.
For SAFETY reasons - A picture of yourself is required to join the group. (No picture of yourself, you will be removed from the group, once the organizer had time to review your profile, you can then change your picture). Once you attended an event, I will put under your name (Verified).
For VERICATION reasons – You are required to answer two very basic, common, and respectful questions.
PURPOSE: This group was designed:
- For single people trying to break away from online dating (which can really suck!)
- For singles tired of the dating scene and want to simply make new friends to hang out with.
- To break the ice and allow the chance to meet new people in a safe environment.
- To enjoy each other’s company for a bit of laugh, little bit of dance, some good food a local business has to offer, to take in some awesome music, sport or some sunshine at the spa,
- To take a break from the typical online “Screen” dating, and the bots it comes with.
This is not an online dating meetup group! This group is designed for single people our age simply needing to socialize in person. To create friendships, network, or just meet for a drink. If you click with someone and it turns into a potential relationship, GREAT! But how would you do this if there’s no opportunity?
MY REFLECTION:
- I understand how difficult it is for single people living in Barrie as it seems like it’s mostly made up of college students & families with lots of activities created for them. Not many social activities for single people over 40. I am in the same boat as you single in Barrie, wanting to meet single people but tired of online dating, the liars, the cheaters, the married person pretending to be single. I hear you. So, join me on a new adventure of meeting people in person.
Let’s do this with a drink. Let’s show them what GEN X is made off!
ABOUT ATTENDANCE:
- Please update your RSVP if you are not coming and as early possible
- Other members ARE hopeful that would like to meet up with you at these events. New members join all time with hopes of coming out and meeting people like YOU!
- We understand things happen, but please avoid last minute cancellations if you can help it. At least make an appearance and allow yourself to have some fun.
-After 2 NO SHOWS you RSVP, you will be removed from the group.
Welcome to our group! We value each member and strive for an environment of inclusivity, collaboration, and respect. To ensure that everyone is on the same page, we have a few guidelines that we ask all members to follow:
1. Treat everyone with respect. We do not tolerate any form of discrimination or bullying.
2. Avoid derogatory gestures or actions (i.e., Sticking your tongue out, or giving someone the middle finger) that show disrespect and immaturity.
3. Be punctual and attend all scheduled meetings or events. If you cannot attend, please notify the organizer beforehand.
4. Be accountable for your actions and decisions. If you make a mistake, own up to it and work towards finding a solution.
5. Any incidents of crime or sexual misconduct should be immediately reported to the police. Single in Barrie organizer will not be held responsible for reporting incidents to the police or speaking to someone being accused. As much as we would like to take full responsibility for every member's safety, it is not possible for us to do so. We cannot monitor everyone's behavior, and we cannot always be present at every moment. Therefore, we ask that each member takes personal responsibility for their safety and security.
6. False rumors or slander about group members will not be tolerated. If someone spreads rumors or makes false accusations without reporting them to the police, they will be removed from the group.
7. When a member is removed from the group, it is for a reason and is done in the best interest of the group and its members.
8. Respect the organizer's decisions. They have the responsibility to maintain the group and keep it functioning smoothly. Asking repeatedly why former members cannot rejoin can become a constant burden for the organizer. Trust their judgment and decision-making process.
9. Do not share offensive or discriminatory content. This includes, but is not limited to, racist, sexist, homophobic comments or jokes.
10. Respect for one another's privacy and consent should be always at the forefront of our minds. We don't want to invade someone's personal space or share their image without their knowledge or approval.
11. Therefore, before taking any pictures or videos of our fellow members, kindly ask for their consent first. If they're uncomfortable with it, then we must respect their wishes and refrain from taking their picture or video.
12. The same goes for posting anything online. We don't want to post something that could potentially harm or embarrass someone else without their permission. So, before sharing anything on social media or other online platforms, please ask the person in question if it's okay to do so.
13. Confidentiality - As an organizer, there may be times when I must keep certain matters confidential. I ask that all members respect each other's privacy and refrain from sharing personal information without their permission.
14. No events will be held on private property or in a member's home for liability and safety concerns.
15. Only venues that are licensed, insured, and have adequate security measures will be used for events. The safety and security of all members and guests are of utmost importance. The organizer will work diligently to find the perfect venue for each event. Cooperation and understanding of these policies are expected from all members.
16. One of the most important rules of the group is that any member who wishes to host an event at their private property must understand that the Single in Barrie organizer will not participate or be held responsible for their actions. The member must agree to this rule and be fully aware of the possible consequences that may arise from hosting an event. Also, the member cannot post the event on the organizer group page. We understand that members may have the desire to host their own events. However, it is imperative that members follow this rule and do so at their own risk. Our primary responsibility as an organizer is to ensure that every activity undertaken is done in a safe and welcoming environment.
As a guest of a member, it is essential to behave according to the rules for the group. These rules are put in place to ensure that everyone is safe and comfortable while in the group. Here are a few guidelines that you should follow:
1. Be respectful of others: One of the most important rules of the group is to be respectful to everyone in it. This includes avoiding language or actions that could offend or harm someone else.
2. Participate positively: Whether you're attending a meeting or social event, try to participate in a positive and engaging manner. This means avoiding negative comments or behavior that could disrupt the flow of the event.
To ensure everyone stays safe, here are a few rules to follow for drinking and drugs.
1. Designate a sober driver before the party starts. This way, everyone knows who will be responsible for driving home.
2. If there isn't a sober driver, consider using alternative transportation options. Barrie Transit runs late into the night, or you could consider taking an Uber or a taxi.
3. Keep an eye on your friends throughout the night. If someone has had too much to drink, step in and make sure they don't get behind the wheel.
4. Don't let anyone pressure you into driving after you've been drinking. Stand firm in your decision to find a safe ride home.
5. No one should pressure you into drinking stand firm in your decision.
6. The organizer/venue cannot be held responsible for your actions, and it is not their job to make sure you get home safely.
7. I had always believed that everyone had the right to make their own decisions, even when it came to drug use. However, there was one rule that I believed every group should abide by: don't get high and put the responsibility on others to take care of you.
8. It's crucial that we do not pressure or influence others to do drugs. It's unfair and dangerous to put that kind of responsibility on someone else. Each person has the right to make their own choices without feeling obligated or forced into anything.
So, with those three rules in mind - safety first, respect for all, and a focus on fun - let's kick back, relax, and enjoy each other's company. Whether we're together for an hour, a day, or a lifetime, let's make every moment count and go home with smiles on our faces.