What we’re about
Are you in your 20s/30s and wondering how to make friends as an adult? Did you just move to Richmond, VA (RVA) and need new friends or things to do? Have you lived in RVA for a while but still would like to diversify your circle of friends? Are you single, engaged, married, or divorced and looking to meet other like-minded friends? Do you like food, beer, wine, cooking classes, games, outdoor activities, music, or anything fun and would rather go with friends?
If you answered yes to any of those questions, this group is for you! Trying to Adult RVA is a membership-based social group. It is open to anyone 21+, of any gender, that want to make friends.
Please ensure you review our rules and policies. We have participation, attendance, return/refund, and social media rules.
Please visit our FAQ page for common questions about our events, membership, tickets, and more!
Please visit our website for more information about Trying to Adult RVA.
🎄✨ Don’t Miss Trying to Adult RVA’s Most Magical Event of the Year! ✨🎄
Get ready for the ultimate holiday adventure—the Tacky Light Tour! 🌟 This beloved Richmond tradition is back, and we’re taking it to the next level. Climb aboard a festive limo bus as we cruise through neighborhoods showcasing the most jaw-dropping, over-the-top holiday light displays you’ve ever seen. 🎅
From houses bursting with twinkling lights to dazzling decorations that defy imagination, these holiday homes pull out all the stops. It’s a night of pure joy, holiday spirit, and unforgettable memories. Grab your seat and join the fun—it’s going to be spectacular! 🥂🎶
The bus will pick us up in Willow Lawn, take us to some of the awesomely decorated houses, then return back to Willow Lawn. Some of the houses we will just drive by and some we will get out to visit. Drinks (including adult beverages) are allowed and so are snacks. However, please keep the bus clean and drink responsibly. Have a plan for after the tour if you plan to drink. Willow Lawn is an easy area to use the GRTC or ride share services. If you wish to drive, there is a large parking lot where we will be meeting which you can use.
**This is a members only event** Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us.
Price for this event is $50 for premium members and $55 for all other members. Space is limited to 25 people AND WILL SELL OUT. Spots are first purchased first in. You must purchase your spot via the Trying to Adult website in order to have a guaranteed spot.
You can claim your spot here.
Tickets available to Premium Members on November 20th
Tickets available to all on November 23rd
Once you receive a confirmation email from the Trying to Adult RVA website, confirming your purchase, you are good to go. Your "unpaid" status on Meetup will not be updated until the week of the event.
Once all spots are claimed and the event is sold out, those unpaid will be moved to the waitlist on Meetup.
A small gratuity is included but if you want to bring some extra cash to tip our bus driver I'm sure it will be highly appreciated. I have requested Gary again as he is our favorite!!
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- New Friend SocialRichbrau Brewing, Richmond, VA
**This event is open to members AND non-members**
Calling all newcomers to the Trying to Adult RVA community! Are you eager to meet new friends and expand your social circle? Join us for our monthly New Friend Social, an informal and friendly gathering designed exclusively for those who have attended three or fewer "Trying to Adult RVA" events.
At this exciting event, you'll be greeted with an inclusive and welcoming environment where you can connect with fellow new members who share your enthusiasm for exploring the RVA area and making new friends. Whether you've recently moved to Richmond or are simply looking to expand your social network, this is the perfect opportunity to make lasting connections and build new friendships.
Our New Friend Leads and other Trying to Adult RVA leadership team volunteers who have attended multiple Trying to Adult RVA events will also join these socials and can provide guidance on other TTA events and happenings.
Please Note: To ensure a comfortable environment for all participants, this event is exclusively for those who have attended three or fewer Trying to Adult RVA events. If you meet this criteria, we welcome you and look forward to helping you forge meaningful connections.
This is a free event, however you will need to claim a ticket in order to attend as attendance is limited. If you can no longer attend after claiming a spot, please let the event host know via a message or comment. Last minute RSVP changes are hard to fill so please change your RSVP and notify us at least 24 hours in advance. Please make sure you read the group rules. We have a policy around no-shows!
You can claim a ticket and confirm your spot here.
Parking can be a little tricky in Shockoe Bottom. There is usually street parking on Cary Street or East Main Street. Please be sure to abide by posted signage.
- Trivia at Bingo BeerBingo beer Company, Richmond, VA
Join us at Bingo Beer Co for an evening of fun and friendship! Kick off the night with food and drinks then trivia, where you can challenge your knowledge and team up with old friends or make new ones.
Bingo Beer offers a variety of food and drinks, as well as an arcade full of games. Come join us for a drink and some trivia! Don't miss out on this fantastic opportunity to connect, compete, and potentially claim victory!
**This is a members only event** Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us.
This event is free for all members. Space is limited to 18 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.
Tickets available to Premium Members on November 11th
Tickets available to all on November 13thYou can claim your spot here.
Once all spots are claimed and the event is sold out, those without a ticket will be moved to the waitlist on Meetup.
Parking: there is a small parking lot on site. If full, there is street parking in the area. Parking may be limited so please allow extra time.
- Books at Brambly - Book SwapBrambly Park, Richmond , VA
We welcome you to join us for our monthly book club get-togethers. We will select one book each month and we ask that you read the book so we can discuss it. Be prepared for spoilers!
Our book this month is “The Christmas Murder Game” by Alexandra Benedict. This book is currently available on Hoopla and may be found as physical, digital, or audio copies at local libraries. You don't have to bring a copy of the book to our meeting.
We will ALSO be doing a book swap at this event. Get ready for a twist on the classic white elephant gift exchange! This holiday season, let’s swap stories, laugh at outrageous trades, and see what mystery novels, hidden gems, or guilty pleasure reads you end up with! Pick a book to share! It can be something quirky, thrilling, inspirational, or even just plain fun. The best swaps have a mix of serious reads and playful surprises. Bring it wrapped in fun wrapping paper to keep it a surprise. Who knows? You may leave with your new favorite read—or make someone’s day by gifting them theirs!
We will choose the next month’s book at our meeting so come prepared to pitch your book of choice.
This event is for Trying to Adult RVA members. Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us.
This event is free for all members. Space is limited to 20 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.
You can claim your spot here.
Tickets available to Premium Members on November 11th
Tickets available to all on November 14thParking: there is a parking lot on site with plenty of spots! When you arrive at the restaurant, let the host know you are with the Trying to Adult RVA group and they will let you know where we are seated.
- Tinsel & TequilaCasa Del Barco, RIchmond, VA
🎄 Holiday Cocktail Pop-Up at Casa del Barco 🎄
Join us for a festive evening at Casa del Barco and get into the holiday spirit with a tequila and mezcal twist! Indulge in creative cocktails like the "Oaxacan Snowglobe," served with a mesmerizing smoke bubble garnish, and explore their incredible selection of over 100 tequilas.
**This is a members only event** Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us.
This event is free for all members. Space is limited to 25 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.
Tickets available to Premium Members on November 26th
Tickets available to all on November 29thYou can claim your spot here.
Once all spots are claimed and the event is sold out, those without a ticket will be moved to the waitlist on Meetup.
Parking: We will be at the Canal Walk location. Parking can be limited so allow extra time. There is parking at 1200 E Byrd Street (Reynolds lot), There is also parking at 8th & Cary Parking Deck, See signage and pay-to-park kiosk on-site
