What we’re about
A group where people who are attracted to more than one gender can meet socially. The group is inclusive of anyone who identifies as bisexual, pansexual or another identity involving attraction to more than one gender. It is also inclusive of transgender and non-binary people.
The meetings are casual get togethers to socialise and chat.
The meetups are open for all ages. As we usually meet at licensed premises, please check for any age restrictions on the event notice.
This is not a dating group. While you may meet people you click with, as with any other social group, our focus is on socialising and making new friends. If you wish to connect with someone outside of the meetings, remember to seek consent first and respect their boundaries.
Group expectations:
Respect for each other, including privacy and personal boundaries. (No racism, sexism, transphobia, homophobia, ableism, biphobia, acephobia).
Keep in mind that some people may not be 'out' about their full sexuality.
Responsible for our own behaviour. (If you are uncomfortable about something happening in the group, please let the host know.)
We are not defined by our current relationships. It is valid to be bi/pan while in romantic or sexual relationships with only one gender.
Enabling a non-disabling environment. It is everyone's responsibility to reduce and remove barriers to participation.
Inclusion of all cultural backgrounds and different understandings of queerness and sexual attraction.
Inclusion of all genders.
Inclusion of transgender people
Inclusion of different cultural understandings of queerness and sexual attraction.
Inclusion of neurodiversity.
Honouring Te Tiriti through acknowledging Te Atiawa/Taranaki ki te Upoko o Ika as manawhenua of the land we meet on.
Upcoming events (1)
See all- Monthly Bi & Pan+ Meetup for Wellington!Southern Cross Garden Bar, Wellington
Come along to our monthly meetup dedicated to the Bisexual and Pansexual communities in Te-Whanganui-a-Tara (Wellington) 🌈
A place for anyone romantically and/or sexually attracted to more than one gender (collectively referred to as "bi+") to come meet and socialise with other fellow bi+ people in a calm and casual platonic environment. We also welcome anyone questioning their sexual and/or romantic orientation.
Come for the fun, come for the chats. Meet new people and make new friends. We have the perfect space for you to be yourself, eat hot chip and.... exaggerate? 😅
Food and drink are available for purchase at the venue. The venue operates as a family restaurant on Sundays. People of all ages may enter up to 5pm. After that, anyone under 18 must be accompanied by their parent or legal guardian.
We will be seated in the outdoor seating area at the back of the venue, in the corner on the right. There will be a sign that reads "Bisexual & Pansexual+ Meetup".
Partners and allies are welcome but the event will be centred on bi+ voices. The full list of Group Expectations can be found on our Meetup.com Group page.
If you have any questions, feel free to message one of the hosts or leave a comment.
If you would like to confidentially RSVP, message one of the hosts: Asami.
If you require any mobility assistance or accommodations, please let us know as soon as you can by messaging one of the hosts via the Meetup chat feature or by emailing [email protected] so we can have these arrangements ready for you.
