Trying to Adult RVA

**This event is open to members AND non-members**

Calling all newcomers to the Trying to Adult RVA community! Are you eager to meet new friends and expand your social circle? Join us for our monthly New Friend Social, an informal and friendly gathering designed exclusively for those who have attended three or fewer "Trying to Adult RVA" events.

At this exciting event, you'll be greeted with an inclusive and welcoming environment where you can connect with fellow new members who share your enthusiasm for exploring the RVA area and making new friends. Whether you've recently moved to Richmond or are simply looking to expand your social network, this is the perfect opportunity to make lasting connections and build new friendships.

Our New Friend Leads and other Trying to Adult RVA leadership team volunteers who have attended multiple Trying to Adult RVA events will also join these socials and can provide guidance on other TTA events and happenings.

Please Note: To ensure a comfortable environment for all participants, this event is exclusively for those who have attended three or fewer Trying to Adult RVA events. If you meet this criteria, we welcome you and look forward to helping you forge meaningful connections.

This is a free event, however you will need to claim a ticket in order to attend as attendance is limited. If you can no longer attend after claiming a spot, please let the event host know via a message or comment. Last minute RSVP changes are hard to fill so please change your RSVP and notify us at least 24 hours in advance. Please make sure you read the group rules. We have a policy around no-shows!

Join us at Bingo Beer Co for an evening of fun and friendship! Kick off the night with food and drinks then trivia, where you can challenge your knowledge and team up with old friends or make new ones.

Bingo Beer offers a variety of food and drinks, as well as an arcade full of games. Come join us for a drink and some trivia!
Don't miss out on this fantastic opportunity to connect, compete, and potentially claim victory!


**This is a members only event** Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us.

This event is free for all members. Space is limited to 18 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.

Tickets available to Premium Members on November 11th
Tickets available to all on November 13th

We welcome you to join us for our monthly book club get-togethers. We will select one book each month and we ask that you read the book so we can discuss it. Be prepared for spoilers!

Our book this month is “The Christmas Murder Game” by Alexandra Benedict. This book is currently available on Hoopla and may be found as physical, digital, or audio copies at local libraries. You don't have to bring a copy of the book to our meeting.

We will ALSO be doing a book swap at this event. Get ready for a twist on the classic white elephant gift exchange! This holiday season, let’s swap stories, laugh at outrageous trades, and see what mystery novels, hidden gems, or guilty pleasure reads you end up with! Pick a book to share! It can be something quirky, thrilling, inspirational, or even just plain fun. The best swaps have a mix of serious reads and playful surprises. Bring it wrapped in fun wrapping paper to keep it a surprise. Who knows? You may leave with your new favorite read—or make someone’s day by gifting them theirs!

We will choose the next month’s book at our meeting so come prepared to pitch your book of choice.

This event is for Trying to Adult RVA members. Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us.



This event is free for all members. Space is limited to 20 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.



🎄 Holiday Cocktail Pop-Up at Casa del Barco 🎄

Join us for a festive evening at Casa del Barco and get into the holiday spirit with a tequila and mezcal twist! Indulge in creative cocktails like the "Oaxacan Snowglobe," served with a mesmerizing smoke bubble garnish, and explore their incredible selection of over 100 tequilas.

**This is a members only event** Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us.

This event is free for all members. Space is limited to 25 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.

Tickets available to Premium Members on November 26th
Tickets available to all on November 29th

We had so much fun with this event last year. We HAD to do it again! Join us at Cirrus Vodka Distillery for a Holiday Ornament Exchange!

Everyone attending should bring a wrapped, holiday ornament to participate in the exchange. Whether it's handmade or store-bought, each ornament carries the spirit of the season. At the event each person will chose a wrapped ornament to take home. The ornament you pick will become a cherished keepsake, a reminder of this special event with new friends!

**This is a members only event** Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us.

This event is free for all members. Space is limited to 35 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.

Tickets available to Premium Members on November 11th
Tickets available to all on November 14th

🌴 Holiday Cocktail Pop-Up at Island Shrimp Co. 🎅🍹

Celebrate the season with a tropical twist at Island Shrimp Co. as they transform the restaurant into a holiday paradise! Enjoy an exclusive new cocktail menu featuring festive drinks like the "Snowball Mai Tai" with passion fruit foam and the "Snowflake Sunburn" served in a ceramic Santa mug—perfect for sipping in style.

🎶 Special Holiday Highlights:
✨ A decked-out tropical holiday atmosphere.
✨ Live music Fridays from 5-8 PM, featuring island-inspired renditions of your favorite holiday classics.
✨ Reserved section for our group to kick off the fun.

This annual pop-up is now in its third year and always promises good vibes, great drinks, and unforgettable memories. 🌟

**This is a members only event** Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us.
This event is free for all members. Space is limited to 25 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.

Tickets available to Premium Members on November 26th
Tickets available to all on November 29th

Kick off your Sunday with a warm, comforting brunch at Cracker Barrel! Known for its classic Southern charm and homestyle cooking, Cracker Barrel offers a delicious brunch menu filled with hearty favorites like fluffy pancakes, savory biscuits and gravy, crispy fried chicken, and so much more. Gather around with friends to enjoy a relaxed, welcoming atmosphere and good food that feels like home. Whether you’re craving a sweet start or something savory, there’s something for everyone to enjoy. Join us for a cozy Sunday brunch and great company!

**This is a members only event** Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us.

This event is free for all members. Space is limited to 16 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.

Tickets available to Premium Members on November 3rd
Tickets available to all on November 6th

🎄✨ Don’t Miss Trying to Adult RVA’s Most Magical Event of the Year! ✨🎄

Get ready for the ultimate holiday adventure—the Tacky Light Tour! 🌟 This beloved Richmond tradition is back, and we’re taking it to the next level. Climb aboard a festive limo bus as we cruise through neighborhoods showcasing the most jaw-dropping, over-the-top holiday light displays you’ve ever seen. 🎅

From houses bursting with twinkling lights to dazzling decorations that defy imagination, these holiday homes pull out all the stops. It’s a night of pure joy, holiday spirit, and unforgettable memories. Grab your seat and join the fun—it’s going to be spectacular! 🥂🎶

The bus will pick us up in Willow Lawn, take us to some of the awesomely decorated houses, then return back to Willow Lawn. Some of the houses we will just drive by and some we will get out to visit. Drinks (including adult beverages) are allowed and so are snacks. However, please keep the bus clean and drink responsibly. Have a plan for after the tour if you plan to drink. Willow Lawn is an easy area to use the GRTC or ride share services. If you wish to drive, there is a large parking lot where we will be meeting which you can use.

**This is a members only event** Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us.

Price for this event is $50 for premium members and $55 for all other members. Space is limited to 25 people AND WILL SELL OUT. Spots are first purchased first in. You must purchase your spot via the Trying to Adult website in order to have a guaranteed spot.

Join us for a cozy day in the kitchen with Culinary by Hobby Hill, one of our all-time favorite local small businesses! In this hands-on cooking class, we’ll learn to create a classic bread bowl and two delicious, warming soups, perfect for the season.

Bring your apron, to-go containers, and an appetite, as you’ll leave not only with new cooking skills but also with a hearty, satisfying meal to enjoy together. Come ready for a fun, flavorful evening where we always leave full, happy, and inspired to recreate these dishes at home. Don’t miss out on this tasty experience! 🥖🍲

**This is a members only event** Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us.

This event is $65 for premium members and $69 for all other all members. Space is limited to 16 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.

Tickets available to Premium Members on November 3rd
Tickets available to all on November 6th

🍵 Join us for a delightful Tea Experience at Southern Serenity Cafe & Tea Room! 🍰

Indulge in the charm and elegance of a traditional afternoon tea setting, where time slows down, and conversation flows over delectable treats. The Full Afternoon Tea Experience promises a memorable outing, filled with a curated selection of delights.

Event Highlights:

• 🍵 Featured Monthly Tea: Savor the rich flavors of their carefully selected tea of the month.
• 🍰 Full Tier Display: Immerse yourself in a variety of delightful offerings, including:
• Eggnog Scone
• Beef Stew
• Cucumber Sandwich
• Deviled Egg Salad Sandwich
• Turkey Salad Croissant
• Ham, Plum, & Cheese Puff Pastry
• Mini Savory Scone
• Gingerbread Cookie
• Pistachio Mousse
• Sticky Toffee Bread Pudding
• Pumpkin Pie Cupcake

You won't leave hungry!

Duration: 2 hours of pure indulgence and relaxation.

Kindly alert us of any food allergies or restrictions at least 1 week in advance.

**This is a members only event** Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us.

Price for this event is $55 for premium members and $59 for all other members. Your ticket includes tea & food highlighted above, tax, and gratuity. All you have to do is show up after you pay for your ticket. Spots are first purchased first confirmed. Space is limited to 12. You must purchase your spot via the Trying to Adult website in order to have a guaranteed spot.