- Pedal Pub - A Mobile PartyNeeds location$48.00
**This is a members only event** Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us.
Grab your go-to drinks and your ID for a good time, and bring that energy because it's going to be a blast! This exclusive Pedal Pub Adventure is a private tour just for Trying to Adult RVA members. We’ll be cruising through the city, powered by your own pedaling and filled with good vibes, as we explore together!
We’re not just pedaling; we’re exploring! Expect 2-3 stops at some of the best breweries, cideries, bars, and distilleries in town. Sip, savor, and soak in the atmosphere at each location as we make our way through the city. Feel free to bring your own drinks along for the ride—but please note, no liquor or glass is allowed on the bikes.
No need to worry if you’re not a seasoned cyclist—this event is all about having fun at your own pace. The Pedal Pub is designed for comfort and enjoyment, ensuring you and your crew have a fantastic time.
What to Bring:
- Your ID
- Your favorite drinks for the ride (no liquor or glass allowed)
- Comfortable clothing and shoes for pedaling
- Cash to tip your guide
- A positive attitude and readiness for fun!
This event is $45 for premium members and $48 for all other members. Space is limited to 14 people. Spots are first purchased first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.
In the event of inclement weather, this event may be cancelled or rescheduled. A announcement will be made an hour prior to the start of the event. If cancelled, all paid tickets will be refunded.
Tickets available to Premium Members on August 12th
Tickets available to all on August 15thYou can claim your spot here.
Once you receive a confirmation email from the Trying to Adult RVA website, confirming your purchase, you are good to go. Your "unpaid" status on Meetup will not be updated until the week of the event.
Once all spots are claimed and the event is sold out, those unpaid will be moved to the waitlist on Meetup.
Parking: meeting location is TBD and will be announced soon.
- Music in the ParkCancelled
**This is a members only event** Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us.
Music in the Park Featuring The Richmond Symphony
Join us for an enchanting evening at Music in the Park, featuring the renowned Richmond Symphony! Experience the magic of live orchestral music in a beautiful outdoor setting. The Richmond Symphony, which includes over 70 professional musicians each season, will delight audiences with a captivating performance from 7:00 to 8:00 p.m.
Event Highlights:
- Live Performance: Enjoy a breathtaking symphony performance by The Richmond Symphony, showcasing a diverse repertoire of classical and contemporary pieces.
- Outdoor Ambiance: Relax and unwind in the park's serene atmosphere, perfect for an evening of musical enjoyment.
- Early Entry: Gates open at 6:00 p.m., giving you plenty of time to find the perfect spot, set up your picnic, and soak in the pre-show ambiance.
Seating and Amenities:
- Seating: Concertgoers are invited to sit in lawn chairs or on picnic blankets.
- Concessions: Alcoholic beverages will be available for purchase from the concession stand operated by Friends of Pocahontas. Purchases can be made via cash or credit.
- Bag Policy: All bags are permitted but are subject to search.
Parking Details:
- Fee: There is a $10 parking fee per vehicle when you arrive. To make the event more affordable, we encourage carpooling with friends to split the fee.
Rules and Regulations:
- Prohibited Items: Absolutely no outside alcohol, canopies, illegal substances, illicit goods, fireworks, or laser pointers will be permitted at the event. Violators will be held accountable and prosecuted by state and federal law.
- Weather: This event is rain or shine, so please come prepared for the weather.
What to Bring:
- Blankets or lawn chairs for comfortable seating
- Picnic baskets with your favorite snacks and beverages. There might also be food trucks available.
This event is free for all members. Space is limited to 30 people. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket from Trying to Adult RVA to join us.
Tickets available to Premium Members on July 3rd
Tickets available to all on July 6thYou can claim your spot here.
Once all spots are claimed and the event is sold out, those without a ticket will be moved to the waitlist on Meetup.
Parking: there is a parking lot on site!
Don’t miss this wonderful opportunity to enjoy an evening of spectacular music with The Richmond Symphony. Mark your calendars and join us for Music in the Park – an event that promises to be a highlight of the season!
- Scarecrow Making & BrewsStrangeways Brewing, Richmond, VA
Get your creative juices flowing and join us for a fun-filled afternoon of scarecrow building! We’ll provide all the materials needed to craft a unique scarecrow to enter into the Virginia State Fair competition together. Bring your ideas, enjoy some drinks, and socialize with friends as we work together to make something awesome!
What to Expect:
- All materials provided – just bring your creativity! 🎨
- We’ll build a free-standing scarecrow that meets the competition’s rules (see details below).
- Check out our Facebook group to vote on what design we’ll create as a team!
- Drinks and socialization are encouraged – it’s all about having fun with friends while we put it together. 🍻
Competition Rules:
- Must be free-standing/anchored.
- Scarecrow should be suitable for all audiences – the Fair has the right to disqualify any inappropriate entries.
- Maximum size: 6 ft. tall, 4 ft. wide.
- No animatronics or electric parts allowed.
- All limbs and accessories must be securely fastened.
Let’s get creative and aim for the top prize at the Fair! Whether you're an artist or just here for fun, this is the perfect way to celebrate the season with friends.
If you have extra materials or a couple bucks to donate to materials, we'd love the contributions!!!
**This is a members only event** Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us.
This event is free for all members. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: there is a parking lot on site. Please make sure you go to the Dabney Road location!
- Book Club: SmutCancelled$5.00
We welcome you to join us for our monthly book club get-togethers. We select two books. You can read one or both prior to our meeting at Brambly Park. You also are welcome to come even if you didn't read the books if you want to meet some fellow book lover friends!
Copies of most of the books can be found as physical, digital, or audio copies at local libraries. You don't have to bring a copy of the book to our meeting.
This month our theme is Smut! Books are TBD and will be discussed during the previous month's meetup.
This event is free for all members. Space is limited to 20 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: there is a parking lot on site with plenty of spots! When you arrive at the restaurant, let the host know you are with the Trying to Adult RVA group and they will let you know where we are seated.
- Dinner at GersiGERSI RVA , Richmond , VA
Dinner at Gersi RVA
**This is a members only event** Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us.
Join us for an exquisite evening at Gersi RVA, the sister location to the renowned Gersi in Brooklyn, NY. Indulge in upscale Italian cuisine crafted with the finest ingredients, paired perfectly with selections from their extensive wine list. Whether you’re a foodie, a wine enthusiast, or just looking to enjoy a memorable meal with great company, this is the perfect event for you.
Experience the warm, inviting atmosphere of Gersi while connecting with friends. It’s the ideal setting for a sophisticated night out in Richmond.
This event is free for all members. Space is limited to 12 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.
Tickets available to Premium Members on August 26th
Tickets available to all on August 29thYou can claim your spot here.
Once all spots are claimed and the event is sold out, those without a ticket will be moved to the waitlist on Meetup.
Parking: street parking directly around the restaurant please plan for additional tine to find a spot!
- Evening at Brambly ParkBrambly Park, Richmond, VA
Evening at Brambly Park
**This is a members only event** Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us.
Join us for a relaxed and enjoyable evening at Brambly Park! Whether you’re in the mood for a delicious dinner, some tasty snacks, or just a refreshing drink, this is the perfect setting to unwind and make new friends. Enjoy the soothing sounds of live music as you mingle, or challenge your buddies to a friendly game of cornhole in the beautiful outdoor space.
This event is all about good vibes and great company, so come as you are and let’s make it a night to remember!
This event is free for all members. Space is limited to 20 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.
Tickets available to Premium Members on August 26th
Tickets available to all on August 29thYou can claim your spot here.
Once all spots are claimed and the event is sold out, those without a ticket will be moved to the waitlist on Meetup.
Parking: there is a lot on site! We will be seated in the outdoor park area.
- Volunteer with Richmond Food not BombsMonroe Park, Richmond, VA
This is a members only event. Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us.
Are you looking for a way to give back to the community and connect with others who share your passion for making a difference? Join us for an afternoon of volunteering with Richmond's Food Not Bombs, a grassroots organization dedicated to feeding those in need. Since its inception, Food Not Bombs has been committed to reclaiming food that would otherwise go to waste and redistributing it to those who are hungry, all while raising awareness about the issues of poverty and food insecurity.
We'll be gathering at Monroe Park, right across from the Cathedral of the Sacred Heart, at 4:00 PM. Together, we'll help set up tents and tables, unload the food truck, and prepare to hand out free meals to anyone who needs them. This event is a wonderful opportunity to contribute to a meaningful cause while also meeting like-minded individuals who are passionate about social justice and community service.
The event will last for about two hours, and it will take place rain or shine, so please come prepared for the weather.
Whether you're a seasoned volunteer or this is your first time, your presence and support will make a big impact. We look forward to seeing you there and working together to support Richmond’s most vulnerable residents.
This event is free for all members. Space is limited to 20 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.
You can claim your spot here.
Once all spots are claimed and the event is sold out, those without a ticket will be moved to the waitlist on Meetup.
Parking: Street parking is available near Monroe Park, and there is also a pay-to-park garage close by for your convenience.
- Dinner at Más Tequila y TacosMás Tequila y Tacos, Richmond, VA
Join us for an unforgettable evening filled with delicious Mexican flavors and great company at Más Tequila y Tacos! Known for its vibrant atmosphere, this is the perfect spot to enjoy flavorful tacos, refreshing margaritas, and of course, a wide variety of tequilas. Whether you're a taco connoisseur or just love exploring new places with friends, this dinner promises to be a fun night out!
**This is a members only event** Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us.
This event is free for all members. Space is limited to 16 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.
Tickets available to Premium Members on September 17th
Tickets available to all on September 20thYou can claim your spot here.
Once all spots are claimed and the event is sold out, those without a ticket will be moved to the waitlist on Meetup.
Parking: mostly street parking. Please allow extra time to find a spot.
- Live Music in The GardenLewis Ginter Botanical Garden, Henrico, VA
Live Music in The Garden Featuring Dance Candy
Join us for an enchanting evening of live music in the garden, featuring the vibrant sounds of Dance Candy! Enjoy the beautiful surroundings of Lewis Ginter Botanical Garden while experiencing an electrifying mix of hip hop, pop, jazz, funk, and R&B.
About the Band:
Dance Candy brings a unique blend of musical styles that create a big, funky party scene. With a vibe that feels like a Pharrell meets Justin Timberlake kind of night, they mix in the soul of Aretha Franklin and Bob Marley, the modern style of Cee-Lo and Bruno Mars, and chase it down with a nightcap of Stevie Wonder. Slide into a seat at a Dance Candy party and you’ll know there’s something special happening tonight.Event Highlights:
- Live Music: Enjoy a fantastic live performance from 5:00 to 8:00 p.m., with a brief intermission to catch your breath and mingle.
Additional Information:
- Rain or Shine: Flowers After 5 is a rain or shine event. The Garden Staff monitors the weather closely, and if there is a high likelihood of hazardous weather, the event will be cancelled.
- Admission: Admission to the garden is $20, payable upon arrival, unless you are a Garden Member.
What to Bring:
- Lawn chairs or blankets for seating
- No outside food or drinks are allowed.
The concert will be held at Grace Arents Garden, adjacent to historic Bloemendaal House.
**This is a members only event** Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us.
Please note this is a free event to the public, however, if you want to join our group and make some friends, we invite Trying to Adult RVA members to join us.
Space to join our group is limited to 30 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.
Tickets available to Premium Members on September 17th
Tickets available to all on September 20thYou can claim your spot here.
Once all spots are claimed, those without a ticket will be moved to the waitlist on Meetup.
Don’t miss this wonderful opportunity to experience live music in a stunning garden setting. Enjoy the tunes, the flowers, and the company of fellow music lovers. Mark your calendars and join us for an evening of country music and garden beauty!
Parking: there is a lot on site with plenty of spots!
- New Friend SocialRichbrau Brewing, Richmond, VA
**This event is open to members AND non-members**
Calling all newcomers to the Trying to Adult RVA community! Are you eager to meet new friends and expand your social circle? Join us for our monthly New Friend Social, an informal and friendly gathering designed exclusively for those who have attended three or fewer "Trying to Adult RVA" events.
At this exciting event, you'll be greeted with an inclusive and welcoming environment where you can connect with fellow new members who share your enthusiasm for exploring the RVA area and making new friends. Whether you've recently moved to Richmond or are simply looking to expand your social network, this is the perfect opportunity to make lasting connections and build new friendships.
Our New Friend Leads and other Trying to Adult RVA leadership team volunteers who have attended multiple Trying to Adult RVA events will also join these socials and can provide guidance on other TTA events and happenings.
Please Note: To ensure a comfortable environment for all participants, this event is exclusively for those who have attended three or fewer Trying to Adult RVA events. If you meet this criteria, we welcome you and look forward to helping you forge meaningful connections.
This is a free event, however you will need to claim a ticket in order to attend as attendance is limited. If you can no longer attend after claiming a spot, please let the event host know via a message or comment. Last minute RSVP changes are hard to fill so please change your RSVP and notify us at least 24 hours in advance. Please make sure you read the group rules. We have a policy around no-shows!
You can claim a ticket and confirm your spot here.
Parking can be a little tricky in Shockoe Bottom. There is usually street parking on Cary Street or East Main Street. Please be sure to abide by posted signage.