Virtual Divorce Ca: Palm Desert

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WANT YOUR DIVORCE QUESTIONS ANSWERED?
Our "Divorce Doctors Webinar" gives you free access to our divorce specialists (attorney, mental health professional &/or financial specialist). YOU are our focus!

ASK ANYTHING DIVORCE-RELATED! For example . . .

• Is it better to tell kids together or separately? Why does it make such a difference?
• What’s the best divorce method for kids?
• What drives divorce costs up, regardless of the divorce process you use, and what can you do about it?
• How do you both save money, regardless of the divorce process you use, by first meeting together with a neutral financial specialist trained in both mediation and collaborative practice?
• How are many high-conflict, low-trust couples able to mediate and ensure financial transparency?
• How and when is it wisest to tell the children you’re divorcing?
• What can happen legally if you move out of the house, or even just out of the bedroom, without an agreement in place?
• How can serving the petition for divorce help or damage your entire divorce process?
• How can the quality of your co-parenting specifically impact your kids’ cognitively, psychologically, behaviorally or medically, and what can you do to avoid these well-researched effects?
• How can you preserve or even develop a civil relationship during a divorce?
• Which legal way(s) to divorce can actually leave you better equipped for respect and civility than you were while married?

EMPOWER YOURSELF WITH EDUCATION!
For most, divorce is a challenging life crisis -- a highly emotional time, when decisions that last a lifetime must be made, and your world is rapidly changing around you.

Most divorcing couples experience “divorce fear” and/or are unsure about making the “wrong” move. Fear of the unknown intensifies distress. And that distress can drive impulsive, fear-based decision-making that’s not effective.

The best antidote? Empower yourself to make calm, carefully-reasoned decisions with education and support for the 3 aspects of any divorce: financial, legal and relational.

Preserve dignity and respect, while creating win-win options that consider the wellbeing of all your family members.🌺

This webinar often includes a very brief overview of your 4 Legal Divorce Process-Options – deciding HOW you’ll divorce is the single most important decision you’ll make! (For a more detailed discussion of this topic, please register here for our Divorce Options® webinars.

WHO ARE WE?
Gone are the days of divorce requiring a (un)civil war!

Virtual Divorce California is a group of interdisciplinary divorce professionals who guide families through a dignified divorce. Modern divorce processes allow you to prioritize children, protect legal rights, and build a financial foundation for your separate futures.

Some legal ways to divorce can actually leave you more skilled to ensure respectful collaboration going forward than you had while married!

Our divorce professionals are all trained in Divorce Mediation & Collaborative Protocols. Some attorneys also litigate. We empower clients to generate solutions that preserve assets, the dignity and wellbeing of all family members, and serve especially to protect children, including adult children, from the toxic stress of high conflict divorce.

NOTE: You do not have to “get along” or trust each other to use Mediation or Collaborative processes for your divorce. To learn much more about your options, read our “Services” and “Professionals” tabs on VirtualDivorceCa.com. 🌸

OUR ONLINE ADVANTAGE
Clients across California have personal, easy access to consult with any of our compassionate, experienced divorce specialists.

Register Here 👉👉🏾👉🏿: https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZYrceCprT8rE9BUFEdQ9bPQ77xYt6rbLwDs

WHAT’S YOUR MOST IMPORTANT DIVORCE DECISION?
The most important decision you’ll make is: which of 4 Legal Divorce Process-Options best fits your family’s budget, values and unique needs?
FREE Divorce Options® Webinars are offered by a team of licensed divorce specialists (lawyer, mental health professional &/or financial specialist). We answer questions while you learn divorce basics, and the pros and cons of each of the 4 Legal Ways to Divorce:

• Do-It-Yourself (“Kitchen Table Divorce”),
• Litigation (Traditional Court Divorce),
• Mediation (Co-Mediation & Team Mediation) &
• Collaborative Divorce.

By educating yourselves, you both save time and money -- you both avoid paying divorce professionals for basic, yet crucial information.

FOR COUPLES CONTEMPLATING DIVORCE & THE PROFESSIONALS WHO GUIDE THEM
When clients are either on the fence about divorce, or have decided to divorce, this educational Divorce Options® Webinar is suitable for both the public, as well as non-divorce professionals who need to know how to guide their clients.

Also attend a free “Divorce Doctors Webinar” to get more divorce questions answered. You are our focus! Register here for a Divorce Doctors Webinar**: Ask Anything Divorce-Related** – What drives divorce costs up, and what can you do about it? How do you both save money, regardless of the divorce process you use, by first meeting together with a neutral financial specialist trained in both mediation and collaborative divorce? How and when is it wisest to tell the children you’re divorcing? Is it better to do this together or separately, and why does it matter so much? What can legally happen if you move out of the house, or even just out of the bedroom, without an agreement in place? How can serving the petition for divorce help or damage your entire divorce process? How can you preserve or even develop a civil relationship during a divorce?

WHO ARE WE?
VirtualDivorceCa.com offers modern divorce methods to allow you to create win-win outcomes, while you enhance respectful communication, protect legal rights, prioritize children and help build a financial foundation for your futures. Some legal ways to divorce actually leave you better equipped for respect and civility than you were while married!

Register Here 👉👉🏾👉🏿: https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZYkce6grTsjGNRh82v33BPa1Nw_z_kxpkUh

WANT YOUR DIVORCE QUESTIONS ANSWERED?
Our "Divorce Doctors Webinar" gives you free access to our divorce specialists (attorney, mental health professional &/or financial specialist). YOU are our focus!

ASK ANYTHING DIVORCE-RELATED! For example . . .

• Is it better to tell kids together or separately? Why does it make such a difference?
• What’s the best divorce method for kids?
• What drives divorce costs up, regardless of the divorce process you use, and what can you do about it?
• How do you both save money, regardless of the divorce process you use, by first meeting together with a neutral financial specialist trained in both mediation and collaborative practice?
• How are many high-conflict, low-trust couples able to mediate and ensure financial transparency?
• How and when is it wisest to tell the children you’re divorcing?
• What can happen legally if you move out of the house, or even just out of the bedroom, without an agreement in place?
• How can serving the petition for divorce help or damage your entire divorce process?
• How can the quality of your co-parenting specifically impact your kids’ cognitively, psychologically, behaviorally or medically, and what can you do to avoid these well-researched effects?
• How can you preserve or even develop a civil relationship during a divorce?
• Which legal way(s) to divorce can actually leave you better equipped for respect and civility than you were while married?

EMPOWER YOURSELF WITH EDUCATION!
For most, divorce is a challenging life crisis -- a highly emotional time, when decisions that last a lifetime must be made, and your world is rapidly changing around you.

Most divorcing couples experience “divorce fear” and/or are unsure about making the “wrong” move. Fear of the unknown intensifies distress. And that distress can drive impulsive, fear-based decision-making that’s not effective.

The best antidote? Empower yourself to make calm, carefully-reasoned decisions with education and support for the 3 aspects of any divorce: financial, legal and relational.

Preserve dignity and respect, while creating win-win options that consider the wellbeing of all your family members.🌺

This webinar often includes a very brief overview of your 4 Legal Divorce Process-Options – deciding HOW you’ll divorce is the single most important decision you’ll make! (For a more detailed discussion of this topic, please register here for our Divorce Options® webinars.

WHO ARE WE?
Gone are the days of divorce requiring a (un)civil war!

Virtual Divorce California is a group of interdisciplinary divorce professionals who guide families through a dignified divorce. Modern divorce processes allow you to prioritize children, protect legal rights, and build a financial foundation for your separate futures.

Some legal ways to divorce can actually leave you more skilled to ensure respectful collaboration going forward than you had while married!

Our divorce professionals are all trained in Divorce Mediation & Collaborative Protocols. Some attorneys also litigate. We empower clients to generate solutions that preserve assets, the dignity and wellbeing of all family members, and serve especially to protect children, including adult children, from the toxic stress of high conflict divorce.

NOTE: You do not have to “get along” or trust each other to use Mediation or Collaborative processes for your divorce. To learn much more about your options, read our “Services” and “Professionals” tabs on VirtualDivorceCa.com. 🌸

OUR ONLINE ADVANTAGE
Clients across California have personal, easy access to consult with any of our compassionate, experienced divorce specialists.

Register Here 👉👉🏾👉🏿: https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZYrceCprT8rE9BUFEdQ9bPQ77xYt6rbLwDs

WHAT’S YOUR MOST IMPORTANT DIVORCE DECISION?
The most important decision you’ll make is: which of 4 Legal Divorce Process-Options best fits your family’s budget, values and unique needs?
FREE Divorce Options® Webinars are offered by a team of licensed divorce specialists (lawyer, mental health professional &/or financial specialist). We answer questions while you learn divorce basics, and the pros and cons of each of the 4 Legal Ways to Divorce:

• Do-It-Yourself (“Kitchen Table Divorce”),
• Litigation (Traditional Court Divorce),
• Mediation (Co-Mediation & Team Mediation) &
• Collaborative Divorce.

By educating yourselves, you both save time and money -- you both avoid paying divorce professionals for basic, yet crucial information.

FOR COUPLES CONTEMPLATING DIVORCE & THE PROFESSIONALS WHO GUIDE THEM
When clients are either on the fence about divorce, or have decided to divorce, this educational Divorce Options® Webinar is suitable for both the public, as well as non-divorce professionals who need to know how to guide their clients.

Also attend a free “Divorce Doctors Webinar” to get more divorce questions answered. You are our focus! Register here for a Divorce Doctors Webinar**: Ask Anything Divorce-Related** – What drives divorce costs up, and what can you do about it? How do you both save money, regardless of the divorce process you use, by first meeting together with a neutral financial specialist trained in both mediation and collaborative divorce? How and when is it wisest to tell the children you’re divorcing? Is it better to do this together or separately, and why does it matter so much? What can legally happen if you move out of the house, or even just out of the bedroom, without an agreement in place? How can serving the petition for divorce help or damage your entire divorce process? How can you preserve or even develop a civil relationship during a divorce?

WHO ARE WE?
VirtualDivorceCa.com offers modern divorce methods to allow you to create win-win outcomes, while you enhance respectful communication, protect legal rights, prioritize children and help build a financial foundation for your futures. Some legal ways to divorce actually leave you better equipped for respect and civility than you were while married!

Register Here 👉👉🏾👉🏿: https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZYkce6grTsjGNRh82v33BPa1Nw_z_kxpkUh

WANT YOUR DIVORCE QUESTIONS ANSWERED?
Our "Divorce Doctors Webinar" gives you free access to our divorce specialists (attorney, mental health professional &/or financial specialist). YOU are our focus!

ASK ANYTHING DIVORCE-RELATED! For example . . .

• Is it better to tell kids together or separately? Why does it make such a difference?
• What’s the best divorce method for kids?
• What drives divorce costs up, regardless of the divorce process you use, and what can you do about it?
• How do you both save money, regardless of the divorce process you use, by first meeting together with a neutral financial specialist trained in both mediation and collaborative practice?
• How are many high-conflict, low-trust couples able to mediate and ensure financial transparency?
• How and when is it wisest to tell the children you’re divorcing?
• What can happen legally if you move out of the house, or even just out of the bedroom, without an agreement in place?
• How can serving the petition for divorce help or damage your entire divorce process?
• How can the quality of your co-parenting specifically impact your kids’ cognitively, psychologically, behaviorally or medically, and what can you do to avoid these well-researched effects?
• How can you preserve or even develop a civil relationship during a divorce?
• Which legal way(s) to divorce can actually leave you better equipped for respect and civility than you were while married?

EMPOWER YOURSELF WITH EDUCATION!
For most, divorce is a challenging life crisis -- a highly emotional time, when decisions that last a lifetime must be made, and your world is rapidly changing around you.

Most divorcing couples experience “divorce fear” and/or are unsure about making the “wrong” move. Fear of the unknown intensifies distress. And that distress can drive impulsive, fear-based decision-making that’s not effective.

The best antidote? Empower yourself to make calm, carefully-reasoned decisions with education and support for the 3 aspects of any divorce: financial, legal and relational.

Preserve dignity and respect, while creating win-win options that consider the wellbeing of all your family members.🌺

This webinar often includes a very brief overview of your 4 Legal Divorce Process-Options – deciding HOW you’ll divorce is the single most important decision you’ll make! (For a more detailed discussion of this topic, please register here for our Divorce Options® webinars.

WHO ARE WE?
Gone are the days of divorce requiring a (un)civil war!

Virtual Divorce California is a group of interdisciplinary divorce professionals who guide families through a dignified divorce. Modern divorce processes allow you to prioritize children, protect legal rights, and build a financial foundation for your separate futures.

Some legal ways to divorce can actually leave you more skilled to ensure respectful collaboration going forward than you had while married!

Our divorce professionals are all trained in Divorce Mediation & Collaborative Protocols. Some attorneys also litigate. We empower clients to generate solutions that preserve assets, the dignity and wellbeing of all family members, and serve especially to protect children, including adult children, from the toxic stress of high conflict divorce.

NOTE: You do not have to “get along” or trust each other to use Mediation or Collaborative processes for your divorce. To learn much more about your options, read our “Services” and “Professionals” tabs on VirtualDivorceCa.com. 🌸

OUR ONLINE ADVANTAGE
Clients across California have personal, easy access to consult with any of our compassionate, experienced divorce specialists.

Register Here 👉👉🏾👉🏿: https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZYrceCprT8rE9BUFEdQ9bPQ77xYt6rbLwDs

WHAT’S YOUR MOST IMPORTANT DIVORCE DECISION?
The most important decision you’ll make is: which of 4 Legal Divorce Process-Options best fits your family’s budget, values and unique needs?
FREE Divorce Options® Webinars are offered by a team of licensed divorce specialists (lawyer, mental health professional &/or financial specialist). We answer questions while you learn divorce basics, and the pros and cons of each of the 4 Legal Ways to Divorce:

• Do-It-Yourself (“Kitchen Table Divorce”),
• Litigation (Traditional Court Divorce),
• Mediation (Co-Mediation & Team Mediation) &
• Collaborative Divorce.

By educating yourselves, you both save time and money -- you both avoid paying divorce professionals for basic, yet crucial information.

FOR COUPLES CONTEMPLATING DIVORCE & THE PROFESSIONALS WHO GUIDE THEM
When clients are either on the fence about divorce, or have decided to divorce, this educational Divorce Options® Webinar is suitable for both the public, as well as non-divorce professionals who need to know how to guide their clients.

Also attend a free “Divorce Doctors Webinar” to get more divorce questions answered. You are our focus! Register here for a Divorce Doctors Webinar**: Ask Anything Divorce-Related** – What drives divorce costs up, and what can you do about it? How do you both save money, regardless of the divorce process you use, by first meeting together with a neutral financial specialist trained in both mediation and collaborative divorce? How and when is it wisest to tell the children you’re divorcing? Is it better to do this together or separately, and why does it matter so much? What can legally happen if you move out of the house, or even just out of the bedroom, without an agreement in place? How can serving the petition for divorce help or damage your entire divorce process? How can you preserve or even develop a civil relationship during a divorce?

WHO ARE WE?
VirtualDivorceCa.com offers modern divorce methods to allow you to create win-win outcomes, while you enhance respectful communication, protect legal rights, prioritize children and help build a financial foundation for your futures. Some legal ways to divorce actually leave you better equipped for respect and civility than you were while married!

Register Here 👉👉🏾👉🏿: https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZYrceCprT8rE9BUFEdQ9bPQ77xYt6rbLwDs

WHAT’S YOUR MOST IMPORTANT DIVORCE DECISION?
The most important decision you’ll make is: which of 4 Legal Divorce Process-Options best fits your family’s budget, values and unique needs?
FREE Divorce Options® Webinars are offered by a team of licensed divorce specialists (lawyer, mental health professional &/or financial specialist). We answer questions while you learn divorce basics, and the pros and cons of each of the 4 Legal Ways to Divorce:

• Do-It-Yourself (“Kitchen Table Divorce”),
• Litigation (Traditional Court Divorce),
• Mediation (Co-Mediation & Team Mediation) &
• Collaborative Divorce.

By educating yourselves, you both save time and money -- you both avoid paying divorce professionals for basic, yet crucial information.

FOR COUPLES CONTEMPLATING DIVORCE & THE PROFESSIONALS WHO GUIDE THEM
When clients are either on the fence about divorce, or have decided to divorce, this educational Divorce Options® Webinar is suitable for both the public, as well as non-divorce professionals who need to know how to guide their clients.

Also attend a free “Divorce Doctors Webinar” to get more divorce questions answered. You are our focus! Register here for a Divorce Doctors Webinar**: Ask Anything Divorce-Related** – What drives divorce costs up, and what can you do about it? How do you both save money, regardless of the divorce process you use, by first meeting together with a neutral financial specialist trained in both mediation and collaborative divorce? How and when is it wisest to tell the children you’re divorcing? Is it better to do this together or separately, and why does it matter so much? What can legally happen if you move out of the house, or even just out of the bedroom, without an agreement in place? How can serving the petition for divorce help or damage your entire divorce process? How can you preserve or even develop a civil relationship during a divorce?

WHO ARE WE?
VirtualDivorceCa.com offers modern divorce methods to allow you to create win-win outcomes, while you enhance respectful communication, protect legal rights, prioritize children and help build a financial foundation for your futures. Some legal ways to divorce actually leave you better equipped for respect and civility than you were while married!

Register Here 👉👉🏾👉🏿: https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZYrceCprT8rE9BUFEdQ9bPQ77xYt6rbLwDs

WHAT’S YOUR MOST IMPORTANT DIVORCE DECISION?
The most important decision you’ll make is: which of 4 Legal Divorce Process-Options best fits your family’s budget, values and unique needs?
FREE Divorce Options® Webinars are offered by a team of licensed divorce specialists (lawyer, mental health professional &/or financial specialist). We answer questions while you learn divorce basics, and the pros and cons of each of the 4 Legal Ways to Divorce:

• Do-It-Yourself (“Kitchen Table Divorce”),
• Litigation (Traditional Court Divorce),
• Mediation (Co-Mediation & Team Mediation) &
• Collaborative Divorce.

By educating yourselves, you both save time and money -- you both avoid paying divorce professionals for basic, yet crucial information.

FOR COUPLES CONTEMPLATING DIVORCE & THE PROFESSIONALS WHO GUIDE THEM
When clients are either on the fence about divorce, or have decided to divorce, this educational Divorce Options® Webinar is suitable for both the public, as well as non-divorce professionals who need to know how to guide their clients.

Also attend a free “Divorce Doctors Webinar” to get more divorce questions answered. You are our focus! Register here for a Divorce Doctors Webinar**: Ask Anything Divorce-Related** – What drives divorce costs up, and what can you do about it? How do you both save money, regardless of the divorce process you use, by first meeting together with a neutral financial specialist trained in both mediation and collaborative divorce? How and when is it wisest to tell the children you’re divorcing? Is it better to do this together or separately, and why does it matter so much? What can legally happen if you move out of the house, or even just out of the bedroom, without an agreement in place? How can serving the petition for divorce help or damage your entire divorce process? How can you preserve or even develop a civil relationship during a divorce?

WHO ARE WE?
VirtualDivorceCa.com offers modern divorce methods to allow you to create win-win outcomes, while you enhance respectful communication, protect legal rights, prioritize children and help build a financial foundation for your futures. Some legal ways to divorce actually leave you better equipped for respect and civility than you were while married!

Register Here 👉👉🏾👉🏿: https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZYkce6grTsjGNRh82v33BPa1Nw_z_kxpkUh

WANT YOUR DIVORCE QUESTIONS ANSWERED?
Our "Divorce Doctors Webinar" gives you free access to our divorce specialists (attorney, mental health professional &/or financial specialist). YOU are our focus!

ASK ANYTHING DIVORCE-RELATED! For example . . .

• Is it better to tell kids together or separately? Why does it make such a difference?
• What’s the best divorce method for kids?
• What drives divorce costs up, regardless of the divorce process you use, and what can you do about it?
• How do you both save money, regardless of the divorce process you use, by first meeting together with a neutral financial specialist trained in both mediation and collaborative practice?
• How are many high-conflict, low-trust couples able to mediate and ensure financial transparency?
• How and when is it wisest to tell the children you’re divorcing?
• What can happen legally if you move out of the house, or even just out of the bedroom, without an agreement in place?
• How can serving the petition for divorce help or damage your entire divorce process?
• How can the quality of your co-parenting specifically impact your kids’ cognitively, psychologically, behaviorally or medically, and what can you do to avoid these well-researched effects?
• How can you preserve or even develop a civil relationship during a divorce?
• Which legal way(s) to divorce can actually leave you better equipped for respect and civility than you were while married?

EMPOWER YOURSELF WITH EDUCATION!
For most, divorce is a challenging life crisis -- a highly emotional time, when decisions that last a lifetime must be made, and your world is rapidly changing around you.

Most divorcing couples experience “divorce fear” and/or are unsure about making the “wrong” move. Fear of the unknown intensifies distress. And that distress can drive impulsive, fear-based decision-making that’s not effective.

The best antidote? Empower yourself to make calm, carefully-reasoned decisions with education and support for the 3 aspects of any divorce: financial, legal and relational.

Preserve dignity and respect, while creating win-win options that consider the wellbeing of all your family members.🌺

This webinar often includes a very brief overview of your 4 Legal Divorce Process-Options – deciding HOW you’ll divorce is the single most important decision you’ll make! (For a more detailed discussion of this topic, please register here for our Divorce Options® webinars.

WHO ARE WE?
Gone are the days of divorce requiring a (un)civil war!

Virtual Divorce California is a group of interdisciplinary divorce professionals who guide families through a dignified divorce. Modern divorce processes allow you to prioritize children, protect legal rights, and build a financial foundation for your separate futures.

Some legal ways to divorce can actually leave you more skilled to ensure respectful collaboration going forward than you had while married!

Our divorce professionals are all trained in Divorce Mediation & Collaborative Protocols. Some attorneys also litigate. We empower clients to generate solutions that preserve assets, the dignity and wellbeing of all family members, and serve especially to protect children, including adult children, from the toxic stress of high conflict divorce.

NOTE: You do not have to “get along” or trust each other to use Mediation or Collaborative processes for your divorce. To learn much more about your options, read our “Services” and “Professionals” tabs on VirtualDivorceCa.com. 🌸

OUR ONLINE ADVANTAGE
Clients across California have personal, easy access to consult with any of our compassionate, experienced divorce specialists.

Register Here 👉👉🏾👉🏿: https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZYrceCprT8rE9BUFEdQ9bPQ77xYt6rbLwDs

WHAT’S YOUR MOST IMPORTANT DIVORCE DECISION?
The most important decision you’ll make is: which of 4 Legal Divorce Process-Options best fits your family’s budget, values and unique needs?
FREE Divorce Options® Webinars are offered by a team of licensed divorce specialists (lawyer, mental health professional &/or financial specialist). We answer questions while you learn divorce basics, and the pros and cons of each of the 4 Legal Ways to Divorce:

• Do-It-Yourself (“Kitchen Table Divorce”),
• Litigation (Traditional Court Divorce),
• Mediation (Co-Mediation & Team Mediation) &
• Collaborative Divorce.

By educating yourselves, you both save time and money -- you both avoid paying divorce professionals for basic, yet crucial information.

FOR COUPLES CONTEMPLATING DIVORCE & THE PROFESSIONALS WHO GUIDE THEM
When clients are either on the fence about divorce, or have decided to divorce, this educational Divorce Options® Webinar is suitable for both the public, as well as non-divorce professionals who need to know how to guide their clients.

Also attend a free “Divorce Doctors Webinar” to get more divorce questions answered. You are our focus! Register here for a Divorce Doctors Webinar**: Ask Anything Divorce-Related** – What drives divorce costs up, and what can you do about it? How do you both save money, regardless of the divorce process you use, by first meeting together with a neutral financial specialist trained in both mediation and collaborative divorce? How and when is it wisest to tell the children you’re divorcing? Is it better to do this together or separately, and why does it matter so much? What can legally happen if you move out of the house, or even just out of the bedroom, without an agreement in place? How can serving the petition for divorce help or damage your entire divorce process? How can you preserve or even develop a civil relationship during a divorce?

WHO ARE WE?
VirtualDivorceCa.com offers modern divorce methods to allow you to create win-win outcomes, while you enhance respectful communication, protect legal rights, prioritize children and help build a financial foundation for your futures. Some legal ways to divorce actually leave you better equipped for respect and civility than you were while married!